A friend asks for help...Do you give it, as always, or let them go ahead with their own journey and learn from their mistakes?
Sometimes its "hard love" or "cruel to be kind"....but is it RIGHT?
Humans can be too reliant, dependent, expectant.
Give up their gut feelings and self responsibility but assigning someone else to make the decision for them...."should I take this job or not" or maybe "should i date that person?"
With a "way out" if it doesnt go to play "well i took your advice and look what happened"
Or they ask your advice then dont take it and get hurt... "should i reply to my Ex's text
(we all know how that one ends)
So can we, like parents of a toddler, set them on their way to watch them fall off their bikes, scooters, climbing frames in the hope they learn balance, risk assessing, action/reaction, self awareness and responsibility?
WILL they learn to be more self reliant, confident, aware?
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